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Site Index In this and other questions in our current project, Did You Know Series, we need to let the readers know that your Foster Families Examiner is not an attorney. Therefore, can only offer you advice based on twelve years of experience in dealing in the Foster Care System, acting as an advocate for Thousands of foster parents.
Empty Nesters
Families in Danger
Great concerns to; Foster Parents; Arizona/Nation
This Examiner believes it is urgent that foster parents in
Arizona, as well as all across our Nation gain knowledge
on this critical issue. Knowing how this can affect
them but also, the well-being of their entire family is
imperative.
However, how does this affect foster parents? Allow me to explain; Most foster parents, where one of the two are employed outside the home in their chosen careers; in example, one person is the primary foster parent (caregiver). While the other happens to be a police officer. This police officers career is in danger. You see, If placed on the State Child Abuse Registry he/she will never be able to work in law enforcement again, this is a fact; not just in Arizona, but Nationwide.
Understand, if you are applying for any position that deals with children in any capacity, they must complete a background check on all employees prior to hiring. This is the case for nurses, nurses aides, day care workers, anyone employed by a public school; whether it be principal, teachers, school nurses, bus drivers, or janitors, they work in and around children, their careers are over.
A foster parent is on this registry ONLY because they dared reach out to a child who needed them. Did you find this article interesting and informative? If so subscribe to this Examiner by marking favorite examiner. This way you will know when another article, giving foster parents vital information, is published. Foster Families Examiner; Marilyn Harrison Part 1 - Empty Nest Syndrome Frequently we become aware of alarming situations that need opened up for discussion. The title of this series of articles, from the term "Empty Nest Syndrome", we are exposing one of those dangerous situations. Someone needs to speak up on this issue.
Parents, who have raised their children, find
they are suddenly feeling alone, senior citizens suffering from
a sense of loneliness, who are at this time in their lives
vulnerable to the advertising they see on television, in
magazines across the country, Arizona too. In these
ads we listen to pleas for help, possibly even seeing the faces
of helpless child (ren), in need of love and someone to hold
them.
Mature Americans are extremely country oriented; usually responding to our State or Nations call for assistance. Bombarded with advertising using words like "empty nesters" we start thinking that we successfully raised our own children and this ad seems to understand that. Missing your children that filled your homes with laughter, the challenges of parenthood, this loneliness is our vulnerability to someone wishing to fill your home for you. Possibly, your living on a very tight fixed income, most find themselves challenged in this tight pressed economy, and your thinking about maybe supplementing your small income by doing something that you would want to do anyway, even helping a child at the same time. Thoughts of children to care for again, filling these empty beds, filling these empty rooms with children who so desperately need someone. You are needed after all! T his is exactly what this advertising is designed by experts to do.
These thoughts are what make you vulnerable to a system that desperately needs foster parents. The ads that are running are very convincing, even enticing, as all advertising is; that is what makes us all buy into their sales pitches. However, what about warnings on other advertising campaigns, do you see any on these? How many people would buy into their programs if there were warnings? Read on!
Part 2 - Empty Nest Syndrome
In part one of this
article we were exploring the need for foster parents
and the advertising seen stating this need, Arizona needs foster
parents too.
However, how many warnings have you seen following these ads? Yes, the need is real, but should senior citizens come to the rescue? Your early warning system is being activated in this article.
The agency will not tell you anything about the child (ren) that you are taking into your home because of the "Privacy Act". Social workers and agencies cannot inform you of these things. Many of these precious children are dealing with severe emotional and/or physical damage, and even medically challenged in other capacities. You will have behavioral problems that you simply may not be up to, or want to deal with. You are capable; it is not you, but the broken system, that is found incapable. The children that you would be dealing with have been traumatized, ripped out of their homes, (their biological parents homes), moved from one foster home to another, and as a result can be emotionally damaged. You can however, assist in many other ways. Number one educate yourself on the Foster Care System, become informed. If you desire to help in this arena, do not allow yourself to be vulnerable to these enticing advertisements. The source of information and an educational website is nfpcar.org |
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