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Grand Parents, welcome to this page. You may feel like a minority, but please consider this. I asked a very good friend and Advocate for Family Rights in her state: If we wanted to join ALL families together, knowing they may have different experiences and views, what would you state to affiliate ALL of us as families. Here is her statement coming from her Higher Power
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A Statement for Your Consideration

“We are joining forces with all persons affected by Parens Patriae to include parents, extended family, foster parents and father's and mother's rights groups. While this is a difficult endeavor due to various divisions, the focus will be on challenging the system with the unified goals and commonalities that each is suffering under in family courts and through CPS.”
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I taught elementary school for 33 years, and now in my retirement I’m a full-time grandma, a part-time blogger, craft-maker, and huge fan of Safe Kids USA on Facebook and Twitter.

I have a 2 year-old granddaughter, who I babysit and drive back and forth to daycare frequently. When I care for her, it's usually in my home. I think it’s my responsibility as a caregiver to be familiar with the latest safety tips and information.

I learn so much from being a part of the online community at Safe Kids USA on Facebook and Safe Kids USA on Twitter that I often pass along the tips and safety information on my blog, which is called “Grandma to Grandma.”

These Safe Kids USA online communities are truly lifesavers. Take a few minutes to join. You’ll be glad you did.

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State Fact Sheets for Grandparents and Other Relatives Raising Children
http://www.grandfactsheets.org/state_fact_sheets.cfm
Here is an introduction to a site maintained by AARP on Facts Sheets that will be updated at least annually. Multi-Generational Families are increasing each year.

Fact Sheet

October 2007

More than six million children - approximately 1 in 12 - are living in households headed by grandparents (4.5 million children) or other relatives (1.5 million children). In many of these homes, grandparents (approximately 2.4 million) and other relatives are taking on primary responsibility for the children's needs. Often they assume this responsibility without either of the children's parents present in the home.

These grandparent and other relative caregivers often lack information about the range of support services, benefits and policies they need to fulfill their caregiving role. In an effort to remedy this situation, a group of national organizations working on behalf of children and/or seniors has prepared State Fact Sheets for Grandparents and Other Relatives Raising Children, which provide helpful state-specific data and information for each of the states, Washington, D.C., Puerto Rico, and the U.S. Virgin Islands.

In a unique national partnership, AARP Foundation, Brookdale Foundation Group, Casey Family Programs, Child Welfare League of America, Children's Defense Fund, and Generations United have compiled and released state fact sheets and one national fact sheet that include:

  • Census data on the number of grandparent caregivers and the children they are raising
  • A comprehensive list of local programs, resources and services
  • State foster care policies for kinship (grandparent and other relative) caregivers
  • Information about key public benefit programs
  • Important state laws
  • National organizations that may be of help

Each fact sheet will be revised once annually, with approximately 12-13 states being fully updated each quarter. If you have information or updates for these Fact Sheets, click here.

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Grandparents testify in Indy to establish visitation rights
Judiciary Committee gives big thumbs up
KELLY LYNCH CORRESPONDENT / (260) 443-4913 klynch@franklincollege.edu
Posted January 17, 2010 at 11:45 p.m.
Orig. Link: http://www.courierpress.com/news/2010/jan/17/grandparents-testify-in-indy-to-establish-rights/  

— Bedford, Ind., native Jerry Meadows — "G.G." to his grandchildren — liked to take them on lawn tractor rides and hold their hands while walking through his garden.

Meadows' voice broke as he talked about his grandchildren as he testified before the state Senate Judiciary Committee in favor of a bill that would establish grandparents' and great-grandparents' visitation rights.

Meadows said his relationship with his grandchildren was so close that they begged to stay at his house.

Things changed. Meadows said his child and the child's spouse stopped bringing the grandchildren by, for reasons he couldn't fathom.

He started seeing less and less of his grandchildren, and he started hearing more and more excuses.

His 3-year-old granddaughter started blaming herself, asking him every time she had to leave, "What did I do? What did I do?"

Other grandparents joined Meadows in supporting Senate Bill 59.

Carmen Elliott described shopping at Walmart and getting excited about seeing her 3-year-old granddaughter there. Before Elliott could say hello, the little girl's mother covered her with a coat and marched her out.

Elliott says she wants to "break the circle of anger and dysfunction that came into our family; it doesn't need to carry over to" the granddaughter.

The committee voted unanimously for the legislation.

Under the bill, if a grandparent had meaningful contact with a child and that contact is broken because of an estrangement with a parent or parents, courts would determine whether granting the grandparent visitation rights is in the best interest of the child.

Nancey Maegerlein of Williams, Ind., said her son started abusing drugs and became emotionally abusive toward his children, which she would not tolerate.

"The result was, 'If you cannot see us, you cannot see your granddaughter,'" Maegerlein said.

She hasn't seen her granddaughter in more than five years because her son has refused to let his daughter visit her. She believes "keeping the core family together is critical" but that grandparents are key in that endeavor.

Sen. Brent Steele, R-Bedford, said he has been concerned about this issue since 1994.

"Those kids we were worried about are now adults," said Steele. "There's a new wave of grandparents that have this concern."

Steele sees this as a "generation where a grandparent could do the raising" and wants to see visitation given to the grandparent where needed.

Sen. Lonnie Randolph, D-East Chicago, envisions the bill bringing more than just grandparents and grandchildren together, but a "positive unintended consequence."

"First object is mediation, bringing in a third party," said Randolph.

Senate Bill 59 now moves to the full Senate for consideration

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Date: Fri, 29 Jan 2010 09:03:33 -0800
From:
jw_mnstrep.gr4childrensrights@
Subject: Fw: This is a letter from Itasca County Commissioner Karen Burthwick


 
Ms. Joyce Williamson, MN State Representative
    National Committee of Grandparents
    for Children's Rights
    290 Highland Ct. #17
    Tyler, MN 56178
    (507) 573-5313


--- On Mon, 1/18/10, LaNaya Allen <lallen.rgmv4@live.com> wrote:
 

From: LaNaya Allen <lallen.rgmv4@live.com>
Subject: This is a letter from Itasca County Commissioner Karen Burthwick
To: "Joyce Williamson" <jw_mnstrep.gr4childrensrights@yahoo.com>
Date: Monday, January 18, 2010, 2:54 PM

 
Dear Representative Williamson,

My name is Karen Burthwick, I am an Itasca County commissioner in my
first term of office. Recently I have been working with LaNaya Allen and
her family and others to put pressure on the political and legal systems
of Itasca County to have LaNaya's niece and nephew removed from the
Foster Home and placed with the Grandparents. The grandparents are
working toward an adoption, we are hoping for the best and crossing our
fingers that the HS efforts to place these children in a permanent
adoptive situation with the foster family or elsewhere has been
derailed. We are not letting our guard down until the adoption by
Grandparents is final.

Hopefully it has helped just to have a Commissioner questioning what is
going on. There is much to do yet as we are all in the learning process
and working on this together to the extent we can. LaNaya has been
amazing in her pursuit of justice for these children. She has shared
your e-mail address and brief explanation of your families loss of
contact with your granddaughter. I hope this is O.K. This is a subject
that has concerned me personally for some time as I also have an issue
with how Human Services treats family in these situations as my
step-grandson was caught up in the system a few years ago.

You have indicated that your granddaughter's was to be an open adoption,
however, from what you have described my suspicion is that such may not
be what happened. Minnesota Statute 257C.08, Subd. 6 provides for
grandparent visitation rights, but appears not to apply in cases where
the adoption was other than step-parent or family. You could certainly
follow-up with an attorney (I am not one) to see if you have any legal
recourse. My presumption is that the foster Home allowed to adopt was
perhaps the same as in LaNaya's family's case, that which was granted
temporary custody? Foster families receive some monies for providing
permanency to children.

The Federal government provides significant grant dollars to the state &
local Human Service agencies as an incentive to move children quickly
out of Foster Care arrangements and into permanency. The Minnesota
Permanency Demonstration Project went into effect in 2005 and will
continue for five years, if successful, the project may be extended
another five years and broadened in scope. The intent of the original
federal legislation was positive in that it was to target children that
had been in Foster Care for many years and was intended to move them
into permanent adoptive situations. The study is to examine the impact
of offering some foster families who choose to either adopt or accept
permanent, legal and physical custody of children in their care the same
level of financial assistance they would have been eligible for as
foster families. In the past this financial benefit was reduced by about
1/2 and some support services were eliminated. The demonstration project
requires that children have resided in a licensed foster home for at
least six month in one of these counties: Cass, Dakota, Hennepin, Mille
Lacs or Ramsey. Did your granddaughter reside in one of these counties?
There is not supposed to be any new funding available for this project
only that the Federal government has given Minnesota the authority to
use existing federal funds more flexibly. You can find information on
the Permanency Demonstration Project  on the Minnesota Department of
Human Services website.

In addition, an accompanying news release from Monday, September 14,
2009 notes that the U.S. Department of Health & Human Services awarded
$35 million to 38 states & Puerto Rico for increasing the number of
Children adopted from foster care, using funds from the adoption
incentive award program. The adoption incentives program was created as
part of the Adoption and Safe Families Act of  1997. Under the Fostering
Connections to Success and Increasing Adoptions Act of 2008 (P.L.
110-351), the adoption incentive was revamped to provide stronger
incentives for states to redouble their efforts to find children loving
and adoptive homes. This law introduced the concept of an adoption rate,
which is derived from comparing current year adoptions to the number of
children in care at the end of the previous year. States receive
additional money if they exceed their highest foster child adoption rate
for previous years back to 2002. The incentive program gave states
$4,000.00 for every foster care child adopted above the 2007 baseline,
plus a payment of $8,000.00 for every foster child age nine and older
and $4,000.00 for every special needs child adopted above the respective
baselines and an additional $1,000.00 for every child adopted over and
above the level of the states highest foster child adoption rate for
previous years.  Previous to this awards were given in 2004 to states
for increased adoptions.

This raises a serious ethical question, could the State & Local Health &
Human Services Agencies be promoting and favoring the placement of
children for adoption into their former Foster Care Home settings,
because there is a financial incentive for them to do so? In addition,
the faster children can be placed the more benefit to these HS agencies.
The more children an agency places in a year the more money they are
bringing in. In addition, since the HS agencies already have a
relationship with the foster care homes it would be much quicker to
allow them to adopt than to work with families to set up an adoption.
Typically, it is much easier to quickly place a young healthy child than
an older one and/or a special needs child, particularly so if the child
has serious needs. It makes the statistics look good. Such could account
for the quick placement and manipulation that is going on with the fast
placement of more desirable young children and the failure of these
agencies to seriously consider family members for adoptions as required
by statute.  Unfortunately, this is not what the law intended.

A good friend once told me to "follow the money" and my father, bless
his heart, said, "to beat 'em, you have to think like they do." My gut
instinct tells me they were right. In any case, as a state legislator, I
would ask that you look into this and that you consider introducing
legislation that will make it much more difficult for HS agencies to
ignore family options.

In your personal situation, if it were me, I would consider filing a
lawsuit as it appears from what you describe that misrepresentation and
very possibly outright fraud occurred. Any written records of what was
said by those in authority over this would be beneficial in such effort.
In that legal process your attorney should be able to obtain the
adoption file, (I am assuming you cannot access it), and you can learn
exactly what the adoption terms were. You may very well have been
mislead and may not have been given any rights to visitation and may not
be able to get any. If fraud occurred on the part of HS agency folks
perhaps you could overturn the adoption??? This assumes it is not to late.

I will anticipate your response and/or telephone call.

Sincerely,

Karen Burthwick
218-245-2824

 


 

 

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NH Supreme court rules state law allowing grandparents to seek custody is constitutional
Link:
http://www.allbusin ess.com/legal/ 3506427-1. html
(Note from GranPa Chuck: Now if we could get a ruling like this for ALL States)

By USA, Lawyers Weekly
Publication: Lawyer's Weekly USA
Date: Monday, February 13 2006

The maternal grandmother of a child born out of wedlock could seek shared custody with the father without a showing that he was an unfit parent, the New Hampshire Supreme Court has ruled in upholding the constitutionality of a state statute allowing grandparent custody under a best interest standard.

The mother gave birth to a baby girl after a one-time sexual encounter with the father.

For the first six and one-half-years of the child's life, the father refused to take responsibility for her. During that time, the child lived approximately half the time in the mother's home and the other half in her maternal grandmother' s home.

The father filed for custody after paternity tests established his parentage and because of the mother's continuing emotional and substance abuse problems.

The grandmother intervened, seeking joint custody under a state law allowing an award of custody to a grandparent or stepparent if the court determines that such an award is in the best interest of the child.

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January 19, 2010 – Wisconsin Appeals Court Ruling on Grandparent Visitation Case

Alex De Grand of the State Bar of Wisconsin Bar reports:

 
A divided Wisconsin Court of Appeals struggled with the scope of grandparents’ visitation rights when a father argued that an order designating dates at which his children will be with their maternal grandparents is more like the physical placement order of a divorce judgment.
In Rick v. Opichka, 2009AP40, the court held that a family court may order a quantity of time for grandparents that is the same as the amount of time provided by a physical placement order. In either situation, “children go out of the custodial home, away from the parent with whom the children reside.”
 
There are more details on this ruling and the background in this case here.
 
In this case, the mother of the two grandchildren is deceased and her parents (the maternal grandparents) went to court to gain visitation when their father began to increasingly limit their time with grandchildren. The court awarded visitation for the grandparents, but the father appealed. The Court of Appeals held the earlier ruling of the family court, saying it may indeed order a specific amount of time the grandparents can be with their grandchildren in a visitation situation.

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Marriage breakups, family feuds can leave older generation estranged from grandkids

http://www.vancouversun.com/life/Marriage+breakups+family+feuds+leave+older+generation+estranged+from+grandkids/2499100/story.html
Once again, Christmas came and went without Phyllis Coutts seeing two of her nine grandchildren.

It's a situation shared by unknown numbers of grandparents, often the collateral damage in marriage breakups and family feuds.

It's been over a decade since Coutts last saw the children from her son's broken marriage. Photos from their early grade-school years still line her home, along with updated ones of their cousins.

By now, her grandson would be well into his teens, and his sister, in her early 20s. They live only a neighbourhood or two away, according to Coutts, who lives in Victoria.

"I would love to see them," the 78-year-old says.

The question hangs in the air: Why hasn't she?

"I never go where I'm not wanted," Coutts says.

Her response is not uncommon, according to those who deal with estranged grandparents.

Weighted down by hurt and bitterness, these situations become entrenched, according to Barb Whittington, a University of Victoria social work professor whose research and counseling focuses on grandparents. Grandparents worry that anything they might do to see the grandchildren could make a bad situation worse.

"They don't want to cause trouble," says Joan Brooks, the great-grandmother who heads the Ontario-based support group, Grandparents Requesting Access and Dignity (GRAND) Society. (Related Link: http://www.grandparenting.org/colleagu.htm )

Grandparents will wait out the estrangement, hoping it will get better on its own, something Brooks has seen happen occasionally in her 23 years with the society.

Many grandparents blame themselves for what happened.

People such as Whittington, Brooks, and family counsellor Jayne Weatherbe hear heartbreaking tales of estrangement.

"The cruellest thing is when the grandparent has lost a son or daughter, and access is denied them to the grandchild," Brooks says.

Some grandparents even drive to their grandchildren's schools, just to catch a glimpse, Whittington says.

And it's not always a former in-law; even a grandparent's own son or daughter could be denying access to the child, according to Weatherbe.

"It's a different world now," Weatherbe says, alluding to changes in parenting styles. Once-acceptable corporal punishment has given way to timeouts. Today's parents often hold firmer beliefs on such issues as diet, Weatherbe says.

"It's their life. It's their choice. You just suck it up and be supportive of (the parent)," Brooks says. Further, she advises, "Stay in the grandparent role; if they ask for advice, give it. Otherwise, stay quiet."

Both Brooks and Whittington agree that the grandparent seeking visitation might well have to take the first step.

Try a phone call, Whittington says, something along the lines of, "I'd like to talk to you, the children, or both."

Brooks recommends a letter to the child's parent, stressing a willingness to see the grandchild on the parent's terms and conditions. She also suggests writing, "If I said or did something, please give me a chance to correct it."

If sending a letter, always write two drafts, Whittington adds. Edit out any traces of bitterness.

One alternative is to find an intermediary in the community whom the estranged person might trust, "not someone who will just take your side," Whittington says.

Groups such as Brooks's are helpful, but not available in many communities.

There are non-profit organizations that counsel grandparents. Often, however, groups such as Parents Support Service and Families in Transition deal with situations far more complex than just grandparent visitations.

"People often do call us as a place to start," Parent Support Services Society of B.C. executive director Carol Ross says from Vancouver. After some conversation, callers are referred to such resources as social services or the soon-to-be discontinued LawLine.

Many of Brooks's generation prefer to talk their way to a settlement rather than use the courts.

Yet it's not uncommon for a separation agreement to allow a grandparent access, according to family lawyer Trudi Brown. She cites, for example, a parent whose work keeps him away for long stretches. Under an agreement, grandparents could piggyback on the absent parent's access time.

Grandparents can apply for access under the provincial Family Relations Act, Brown adds, either doing it themselves or hiring a lawyer. However, today's court schedules can leave such a case lingering for months before being heard, she says.

Ultimately, the court decides on what is best for the child.

Some grandparents assume older children just don't want to see them, or they would do so on their own, according to Whittington.

What they often don't understand is that teens, in particular, are so absorbed in their own world, they don't readily think of others.

Conversely, the child might assume a grandparent isn't interested. Whittington cites one grandmother who sent the kids birthday and Christmas presents by taxi, only to have their mother return them the same way.

"The kids never knew the grandmother was trying," Whittington says.

One of Whittington's favourite reconciliation stories involves Canada's national game.

Just to see their grandson, the paternal grandparents would go to his hockey games, sitting on the opposite side of the arena from the estranged former daughter-in-law's family. The young player finally had enough, complaining he was getting whiplash from looking from side to side.

"I need you all on one side," he told them. They moved closer and closer until, eventually, they sat together, Whittington says.

Victoria Times Colonist

jgibson@tc.canwest.com

 

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NEW!! GRANDPARENT TRAINING VIDEOS REGARDING CPS:
Watch all four regardless of where you are at in the process
Provided by: http://washingtonstateextendedfamilies.com/

Part one:  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YC7FxvYUKzw

Part two: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B_QdgdtmJes

Part three: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CDZbLSrCUHY 

Part four: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M7_ca4SRbQg

Child Protective Services and Legal Help: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fbPhfVhb6C4

Child Protective Services and Psychological Evaluations: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eaA2ohqTNsQ

Family Court Crisis - Our children at Risk:

 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KD2TowPuYVg

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BiA16b5WjU4

How to do an affidavit: http://familyrights.us/bin/FORMS/sworn_affidavit.html

ATTORNEY GENERALS ARE VIOLATING EXTENDED FAMILY CONSTITUTIONAL RIGHTS ACROSS THE COUNTRY IN PARENTAL TRIALS AS INDIVIDUALS SEEKING RELIEF.

Extended family have implied and assumed rights through state laws. Those laws may imply several things, such as placement with family first in a dependency action. While in court, AGs may minimize the importance of family, the state laws suggest recognition. Many argue that extended family have no Constitutional rights and I disagree. As an individual stakeholder in a child's life, there is often a tremendous amount of time, money and belongings provided by extended family making them heavy investors. In some cultures in our country, including and not limited to Caucasian, lineage such as grandchildren are just as heavily invested in as immediate lineage. If one reads the fifth amendment: nor be deprived of life, liberty, or property, without due process of law; nor shall private property be taken for public use, without just compensation this would include lineage and the rights to lineage where heavy investments have been made to the benefit of the whole family. Parents often depend on extended family for their children's well being and secondary parenting.

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Other Sites That May Interest You

  • Grandparents Against The Destruction Of Families Inc.- http://www.go2gadf.com/
  • www.custodialgrandparents.com  -Where you can go to discuss the toils and triumphs of raising a second generation.  It is a forum setting where we can vent, share, and seek advice.  I don't make anything for running this site. I do it out of the love and compassion I have for other grandparents out there who have found themselves in the same situation.  I hope to see you soon.
  • Grand Parents Again - Support Groups. We are always looking to make additions in our Support Area. If you know of a support group either On-Line or Off-Line, let us know.
  • AARP Discussion Sites relating to Grand Parents: (My AARP Address: http://www.aarp.org/community/GranPaChuck )
        Visitation with Grandchildren - This group is for grandparents who are experiencing problems with visiting their grandchildren.
       
    Raising Grandchildren  - This group is for grandparents who are raising grandchildren to communicate, share tips and discuss challenges and solutions.
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This Says It All

God Made Grand Parents
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Southern Grandma Goes To Court


(Note: Not sure of the original author, but thought you might enjoy this)

Lawyers should never ask a Southern grandma a question if they aren't prepared
for the answer.

In a trial, a Southern small-town prosecuting attorney called his first witness,
a grandmotherly, elderly woman to the stand. He approached her and asked, 'Mrs.
Jones, do you know me?' She responded, 'Why, yes, I do know you, Mr. Williams.
I've known you since you were a boy, and frankly, you've been a big
disappointment to me. You lie, you cheat on your wife, and you manipulate people
and talk about them behind their backs. You think you're a big shot when you
haven't the brains to realize you'll never amount to anything more than a
two-bit paper pusher. Yes, I know you.'

The lawyer was stunned. Not knowing what else to do, he pointed across the room
and asked, 'Mrs. Jones, do you know the defense attorney?'

She again replied, 'Why yes, I do. I've known Mr. Bradley since he was a
youngster, too. He's lazy, bigoted, and he has a drinking problem. He can't
build a normal relationship with anyone, and his law practice is one of the
worst in the entire state. Not to mention he cheated on his wife with three
different women. One of them was your wife. Yes, I know him.'

The defense attorney nearly died.

The judge asked both counselors to approach the bench and, in a very quiet
voice, said,

'If either of you idiots asks her if she knows me, I'll send you both to the
electric chair.'

 

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parens patriae (n) is Latin for "father of the people". In law, it refers to the public policy power of the state to usurp the rights of the natural parent, legal guardian or informal carer, and to act as the parent of any child or individual who is in need of protection, such as a child whose parents are unable or unwilling to take care of him or her, or an incapacitated and dependent individual. In U.S. litigation, parens patriae can be invoked by the state to create its standing to sue; the state declares itself to be suing on behalf of its people. For example, the Hart-Scott-Rodino Antitrust Improvement Act of 1976 (15 USC 15(c)), through Section 4C of the Clayton Act, permits state attorneys general to bring parens patriae suits on behalf of those injured by violations of the Sherman Antitrust Act.(See: in loco parentis)

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A guy is 80 years old and loves to fish.

He was sitting in his boat the other day when he heard a voice say, "Pick me up." He looked around and couldn't see any one. He thought he was dreaming when he heard the voice say again,"Pick me up."

He looked in the water and there, floating on the top, was a frog.

The man said, "Are you talking to me?"

The frog said, "Yes, I'm talking to you. Pick me up, then kiss me and I'll turn into the most beautiful woman you have ever seen. "I'll make sure that all your friends are envious and jealous because I will be your bride!"

The man looked at the frog for a short time, reached over, picked it up carefully, and placed it in his front breast pocket.

Then the frog said, "What, are you nuts? Didn't you hear what I said? I said kiss me and I will be your beautiful bride."

He opened his pocket, looked at the frog and said,

"Nah, at my age I'd rather have a talking frog."


With age comes wisdom.

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Grand Parent Survey
Link to Survey: http://www.surveymonkey.com/s.aspx?sm=FDwqrVvm6Tdh3ZtW1C7b4g_3d_3d

Dear Grandparent,

My name is Joan Strutton and I am a doctoral candidate at Texas A&M University-Commerce. I am currently conducting research to determine differences in depression levels in grandparents raising their grandchildren and depression experienced by traditional grandparents. The purpose of the research is to identify these differences and use the research to develop and provide better support systems for grandparents. The results of this study may be used to design and initiate further research studies.

The survey takes an estimated 10 minutes to complete. That time could be longer or shorter depending on the amount of time that is taken to answer the questions. The survey is hosted by an outside survey company, SurveyMonkey.com, and all responses are stored on the company’s website and kept completely confidential and anonymous. The system does not link the responses with the individual. All information will be encrypted to further protect the participants.
 
If you experience any type of discomfort after completing the survey, please contact your personal physician, a counselor, or a skilled helper at the telephone help lines provided to you.  There are no costs or benefits associated with this study.

Depression Hotline Suicide Hotline  Crisis Hotline
630-482-9696  800-784-2433  800-273-8255

Participation is voluntary. Refusal to participate will involve no penalty or loss of benefits to which you are otherwise entitled. You may discontinue answering the survey at any time prior to clicking the submit button. Once you have entered your responses and the data are in the SurveyMonkey system, no one can identify, edit, or remove your individual responses. By clicking on the yes button, you are giving your consent to participate in the study.

If you have any questions or concerns about this study please contact Joan Strutton, Texas A&M University-Commerce, Phone: 254-721-8645 or Dr. Amir Abbassi in the Department of Counseling, Texas A&M University-Commerce, Phone:  903-886-5637. Questions regarding your rights as a participant may be directed to Dr. Tracy Henley, IRB Chair, Texas A&M University-Commerce at 903-886-5200.
Thank you,

Joan Strutton
Doctoral Candidate
Texas A&M University-Commerce

Link to Survey: http://www.surveymonkey.com/s.aspx?sm=FDwqrVvm6Tdh3ZtW1C7b4g_3d_3d

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