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Grand Parents,
welcome to this page. You may feel like a
minority, but please consider this. I asked a very good friend and
Advocate for Family Rights in her state: If we wanted to join ALL
families together, knowing they may have different experiences and
views, what would you state to affiliate ALL of us as families. Here is
her statement coming from her Higher Power
Knowledge is Power
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A Statement for Your
Consideration
“We are
joining forces with all persons affected by
Parens Patriae to include
parents, extended family, foster parents and father's and mother's
rights groups. While this is a difficult endeavor due to various
divisions, the focus will be on challenging the system with the unified
goals and commonalities that each is suffering under in family courts
and through CPS.”
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I taught elementary school for 33 years, and now
in my retirement I’m a full-time grandma, a part-time blogger,
craft-maker, and huge fan of
Safe Kids USA on Facebook and
Twitter.
I have a 2 year-old granddaughter, who I
babysit and drive back and forth to daycare frequently. When I care
for her, it's usually in my home. I think it’s my responsibility as
a caregiver to be familiar with the latest safety tips and
information.
I learn so much from being a part of the
online community at
Safe Kids USA on Facebook and
Safe Kids USA on Twitter that I often pass along the tips and
safety information on my blog, which is called “Grandma to
Grandma.”
These Safe Kids USA online communities
are truly lifesavers. Take a few minutes to join. You’ll be glad you
did.
Thanks for your time.
Sincerely,
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P.S. Join what I think is the most useful
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GRANDE Central is intended to raise the awareness
of grandparents raising grandchildren and relative
caregivers. Topics include to name a few: the
importance of family relations, legal and legislative policies that
affect family, caregiver self-care, health issues, and holistic
living principles.
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State Fact Sheets for Grandparents and Other Relatives Raising
Children
http://www.grandfactsheets.org/state_fact_sheets.cfm
Here is an introduction to a site maintained by AARP on Facts Sheets
that will be updated at least annually. Multi-Generational Families are
increasing each year.
Fact Sheet
October 2007
More than six million children - approximately 1 in 12 - are living in
households headed by grandparents (4.5 million children) or other
relatives (1.5 million children). In many of these homes, grandparents
(approximately 2.4 million) and other relatives are taking on primary
responsibility for the children's needs. Often they assume this
responsibility without either of the children's parents present in the
home.
These grandparent and other relative caregivers often lack information
about the range of support services, benefits and policies they need to
fulfill their caregiving role. In an effort to remedy this situation, a
group of national organizations working on behalf of children and/or
seniors has prepared State Fact Sheets for Grandparents and Other
Relatives Raising Children, which provide helpful state-specific data
and information for each of the states, Washington, D.C., Puerto Rico,
and the U.S. Virgin Islands.
In a unique national partnership,
AARP Foundation,
Brookdale Foundation
Group,
Casey Family Programs,
Child Welfare League of America,
Children's Defense Fund,
and
Generations United have compiled and
released state fact sheets and one national fact sheet that include:
- Census data on the number of grandparent caregivers and the children
they are raising
- A comprehensive list of local programs, resources and services
- State foster care policies for kinship (grandparent and other
relative) caregivers
- Information about key public benefit programs
- Important state laws
- National organizations that may be of help
Each fact sheet will be revised once annually,
with approximately 12-13 states being fully updated each quarter. If you
have information or updates for these Fact Sheets,
click here.
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INDIANAPOLIS —
Bedford, Ind., native Jerry Meadows — "G.G." to his grandchildren —
liked to take them on lawn tractor rides and hold their hands while
walking through his garden.
Meadows' voice broke as he talked about his
grandchildren as he testified before the state Senate Judiciary
Committee in favor of a bill that would establish grandparents' and
great-grandparents' visitation rights.
Meadows said his relationship with his
grandchildren was so close that they begged to stay at his house.
Things changed. Meadows said his child and the
child's spouse stopped bringing the grandchildren by, for reasons he
couldn't fathom.
He started seeing less and less of his
grandchildren, and he started hearing more and more excuses.
His 3-year-old granddaughter started blaming
herself, asking him every time she had to leave, "What did I do? What
did I do?"
Other grandparents joined Meadows in supporting
Senate Bill 59.
Carmen Elliott described shopping at Walmart and
getting excited about seeing her 3-year-old granddaughter there. Before
Elliott could say hello, the little girl's mother covered her with a
coat and marched her out.
Elliott says she wants to "break the circle of
anger and dysfunction that came into our family; it doesn't need to
carry over to" the granddaughter.
The committee voted unanimously for the
legislation.
Under the bill, if a grandparent had meaningful
contact with a child and that contact is broken because of an
estrangement with a parent or parents, courts would determine whether
granting the grandparent visitation rights is in the best interest of
the child.
Nancey Maegerlein of Williams, Ind., said her son
started abusing drugs and became emotionally abusive toward his
children, which she would not tolerate.
"The result was, 'If you cannot see us, you cannot
see your granddaughter,'" Maegerlein said.
She hasn't seen her granddaughter in more than
five years because her son has refused to let his daughter visit her.
She believes "keeping the core family together is critical" but that
grandparents are key in that endeavor.
Sen. Brent Steele, R-Bedford, said he has been
concerned about this issue since 1994.
"Those kids we were worried about are now adults,"
said Steele. "There's a new wave of grandparents that have this
concern."
Steele sees this as a "generation where a
grandparent could do the raising" and wants to see visitation given to
the grandparent where needed.
Sen. Lonnie Randolph, D-East Chicago, envisions
the bill bringing more than just grandparents and grandchildren
together, but a "positive unintended consequence."
"First object is mediation, bringing in a third
party," said Randolph.
Senate Bill 59 now moves to the full Senate for
consideration
Date: Fri, 29 Jan 2010
09:03:33 -0800
From:
jw_mnstrep.gr4childrensrights@
Subject: Fw: This is a letter from Itasca County Commissioner Karen
Burthwick
Ms.
Joyce Williamson, MN State Representative
National Committee of
Grandparents
for Children's Rights
290 Highland Ct. #17
Tyler, MN 56178
(507) 573-5313
--- On Mon, 1/18/10, LaNaya Allen <lallen.rgmv4@live.com>
wrote:
From: LaNaya Allen <lallen.rgmv4@live.com>
Subject: This is a letter from Itasca County Commissioner
Karen Burthwick
To: "Joyce Williamson" <jw_mnstrep.gr4childrensrights@yahoo.com>
Date: Monday, January 18, 2010, 2:54 PM
Dear
Representative Williamson,
My name is Karen Burthwick, I am an Itasca County
commissioner in my
first term of office. Recently I have been working
with LaNaya Allen and
her family and others to put pressure on the
political and legal systems
of Itasca County to have LaNaya's niece and nephew
removed from the
Foster Home and placed with the Grandparents. The
grandparents are
working toward an adoption, we are hoping for the
best and crossing our
fingers that the HS efforts to place these children
in a permanent
adoptive situation with the foster family or
elsewhere has been
derailed. We are not letting our guard down until
the adoption by
Grandparents is final.
Hopefully it has helped just to have a Commissioner
questioning what is
going on. There is much to do yet as we are all in
the learning process
and working on this together to the extent we can.
LaNaya has been
amazing in her pursuit of justice for these
children. She has shared
your e-mail address and brief explanation of your
families loss of
contact with your granddaughter. I hope this is O.K.
This is a subject
that has concerned me personally for some time as I
also have an issue
with how Human Services treats family in these
situations as my
step-grandson was caught up in the system a few
years ago.
You have indicated that your granddaughter's was to
be an open adoption,
however, from what you have described my suspicion
is that such may not
be what happened. Minnesota Statute 257C.08, Subd. 6
provides for
grandparent visitation rights, but appears not to
apply in cases where
the adoption was other than step-parent or family.
You could certainly
follow-up with an attorney (I am not one) to see if
you have any legal
recourse. My presumption is that the foster Home
allowed to adopt was
perhaps the same as in LaNaya's family's case, that
which was granted
temporary custody? Foster families receive some
monies for providing
permanency to children.
The Federal government provides significant grant
dollars to the state &
local Human Service agencies as an incentive to move
children quickly
out of Foster Care arrangements and into permanency.
The Minnesota
Permanency Demonstration Project went into effect in
2005 and will
continue for five years, if successful, the project
may be extended
another five years and broadened in scope. The
intent of the original
federal legislation was positive in that it was to
target children that
had been in Foster Care for many years and was
intended to move them
into permanent adoptive situations. The study is to
examine the impact
of offering some foster families who choose to
either adopt or accept
permanent, legal and physical custody of children in
their care the same
level of financial assistance they would have been
eligible for as
foster families. In the past this financial benefit
was reduced by about
1/2 and some support services were eliminated. The
demonstration project
requires that children have resided in a licensed
foster home for at
least six month in one of these counties: Cass,
Dakota, Hennepin, Mille
Lacs or Ramsey. Did your granddaughter reside in one
of these counties?
There is not supposed to be any new funding
available for this project
only that the Federal government has given Minnesota
the authority to
use existing federal funds more flexibly. You can
find information on
the Permanency Demonstration Project on the
Minnesota Department of
Human Services website.
In addition, an accompanying news release from
Monday, September 14,
2009 notes that the U.S. Department of Health &
Human Services awarded
$35 million to 38 states & Puerto Rico for
increasing the number of
Children adopted from foster care, using funds from
the adoption
incentive award program. The adoption incentives
program was created as
part of the Adoption and Safe Families Act of 1997.
Under the Fostering
Connections to Success and Increasing Adoptions Act
of 2008 (P.L.
110-351), the adoption incentive was revamped to
provide stronger
incentives for states to redouble their efforts to
find children loving
and adoptive homes. This law introduced the concept
of an adoption rate,
which is derived from comparing current year
adoptions to the number of
children in care at the end of the previous year.
States receive
additional money if they exceed their highest foster
child adoption rate
for previous years back to 2002. The incentive
program gave states
$4,000.00 for every foster care child adopted above
the 2007 baseline,
plus a payment of $8,000.00 for every foster child
age nine and older
and $4,000.00 for every special needs child adopted
above the respective
baselines and an additional $1,000.00 for every
child adopted over and
above the level of the states highest foster child
adoption rate for
previous years. Previous to this awards were given
in 2004 to states
for increased adoptions.
This raises a serious ethical question, could the
State & Local Health &
Human Services Agencies be promoting and favoring
the placement of
children for adoption into their former Foster Care
Home settings,
because there is a financial incentive for them to
do so? In addition,
the faster children can be placed the more benefit
to these HS agencies.
The more children an agency places in a year the
more money they are
bringing in. In addition, since the HS agencies
already have a
relationship with the foster care homes it would be
much quicker to
allow them to adopt than to work with families to
set up an adoption.
Typically, it is much easier to quickly place a
young healthy child than
an older one and/or a special needs child,
particularly so if the child
has serious needs. It makes the statistics look
good. Such could account
for the quick placement and manipulation that is
going on with the fast
placement of more desirable young children and the
failure of these
agencies to seriously consider family members for
adoptions as required
by statute. Unfortunately, this is not what the law
intended.
A good friend once told me to "follow the money" and
my father, bless
his heart, said, "to beat 'em, you have to think
like they do." My gut
instinct tells me they were right. In any case, as a
state legislator, I
would ask that you look into this and that you
consider introducing
legislation that will make it much more difficult
for HS agencies to
ignore family options.
In your personal situation, if it were me, I would
consider filing a
lawsuit as it appears from what you describe that
misrepresentation and
very possibly outright fraud occurred. Any written
records of what was
said by those in authority over this would be
beneficial in such effort.
In that legal process your attorney should be able
to obtain the
adoption file, (I am assuming you cannot access it),
and you can learn
exactly what the adoption terms were. You may very
well have been
mislead and may not have been given any rights to
visitation and may not
be able to get any. If fraud occurred on the part of
HS agency folks
perhaps you could overturn the adoption??? This
assumes it is not to late.
I will anticipate your response and/or telephone
call.
Sincerely,
Karen Burthwick
218-245-2824
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The maternal
grandmother of a child born out of wedlock could seek shared
custody with the
father without a
showing that he was an unfit parent, the New Hampshire
Supreme Court has ruled in upholding the constitutionality
of a state statute allowing grandparent custody under a best
interest standard.
The mother gave birth to a
baby girl after a one-time sexual encounter with the father.
For the first six and
one-half-years of the child's life, the father refused to
take responsibility for her. During that time, the child
lived approximately half the time in the mother's home and
the other half in her maternal
grandmother' s home.
The father filed for
custody after paternity tests established his parentage and
because of the mother's continuing emotional and substance
abuse problems.
The grandmother
intervened, seeking joint custody under a state law allowing
an award of custody to a grandparent or stepparent if the
court determines that such an award is in the best interest
of the child.
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January 19, 2010 – Wisconsin Appeals Court Ruling on Grandparent
Visitation Case
Alex De Grand of the
State Bar of Wisconsin Bar reports:
A divided Wisconsin Court of Appeals struggled with the scope of
grandparents’ visitation rights when a father argued that an order
designating dates at which his children will be with their maternal
grandparents is more like the physical placement order of a divorce
judgment.
In Rick v. Opichka, 2009AP40, the court held that a family court may
order a quantity of time for grandparents that is the same as the
amount of time provided by a physical placement order. In either
situation, “children go out of the custodial home, away from the
parent with whom the children reside.”
There are more details on this ruling and the background in this
case
here.
In this case, the mother of the two grandchildren is deceased and
her parents (the maternal grandparents) went to court to gain
visitation when their father began to increasingly limit their time
with grandchildren. The court awarded visitation for the
grandparents, but the father appealed. The Court of Appeals held the
earlier ruling of the family court, saying it may indeed order a
specific amount of time the grandparents can be with their
grandchildren in a visitation situation. Back
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Marriage breakups, family feuds can leave older generation
estranged from grandkids
http://www.vancouversun.com/life/Marriage+breakups+family+feuds+leave+older+generation+estranged+from+grandkids/2499100/story.html
Once again, Christmas came and went without Phyllis Coutts
seeing two of her nine grandchildren. It's a situation shared
by unknown numbers of grandparents, often the collateral damage
in marriage breakups and family feuds.
It's been over a decade since Coutts last saw the children
from her son's broken marriage. Photos from their early
grade-school years still line her home, along with updated ones
of their cousins.
By now, her grandson would be well into his teens, and his
sister, in her early 20s. They live only a neighbourhood or two
away, according to Coutts, who lives in Victoria.
"I would love to see them," the 78-year-old says.
The question hangs in the air: Why hasn't she?
"I never go where I'm not wanted," Coutts says.
Her response is not uncommon, according to those who deal
with estranged grandparents.
Weighted down by hurt and bitterness, these situations become
entrenched, according to Barb Whittington, a University of
Victoria social work professor whose research and counseling
focuses on grandparents. Grandparents worry that anything they
might do to see the grandchildren could make a bad situation
worse.
"They don't want to cause trouble," says Joan Brooks, the
great-grandmother who heads the Ontario-based support group,
Grandparents Requesting Access and Dignity (GRAND) Society.
(Related Link:
http://www.grandparenting.org/colleagu.htm )
Grandparents will wait out the estrangement, hoping it will
get better on its own, something Brooks has seen happen
occasionally in her 23 years with the society.
Many grandparents blame themselves for what happened.
People such as Whittington, Brooks, and family counsellor
Jayne Weatherbe hear heartbreaking tales of estrangement.
"The cruellest thing is when the grandparent has lost a son
or daughter, and access is denied them to the grandchild,"
Brooks says.
Some grandparents even drive to their grandchildren's
schools, just to catch a glimpse, Whittington says.
And it's not always a former in-law; even a grandparent's own
son or daughter could be denying access to the child, according
to Weatherbe.
"It's a different world now," Weatherbe says, alluding to
changes in parenting styles. Once-acceptable corporal punishment
has given way to timeouts. Today's parents often hold firmer
beliefs on such issues as diet, Weatherbe says.
"It's their life. It's their choice. You just suck it up and
be supportive of (the parent)," Brooks says. Further, she
advises, "Stay in the grandparent role; if they ask for advice,
give it. Otherwise, stay quiet."
Both Brooks and Whittington agree that the grandparent
seeking visitation might well have to take the first step.
Try a phone call, Whittington says, something along the lines
of, "I'd like to talk to you, the children, or both."
Brooks recommends a letter to the child's parent, stressing a
willingness to see the grandchild on the parent's terms and
conditions. She also suggests writing, "If I said or did
something, please give me a chance to correct it."
If sending a letter, always write two drafts, Whittington
adds. Edit out any traces of bitterness.
One alternative is to find an intermediary in the community
whom the estranged person might trust, "not someone who will
just take your side," Whittington says.
Groups such as Brooks's are helpful, but not available in
many communities.
There are non-profit organizations that counsel grandparents.
Often, however, groups such as Parents Support Service and
Families in Transition deal with situations far more complex
than just grandparent visitations.
"People often do call us as a place to start," Parent Support
Services Society of B.C. executive director Carol Ross says from
Vancouver. After some conversation, callers are referred to such
resources as social services or the soon-to-be discontinued
LawLine.
Many of Brooks's generation prefer to talk their way to a
settlement rather than use the courts.
Yet it's not uncommon for a separation agreement to allow a
grandparent access, according to family lawyer Trudi Brown. She
cites, for example, a parent whose work keeps him away for long
stretches. Under an agreement, grandparents could piggyback on
the absent parent's access time.
Grandparents can apply for access under the provincial Family
Relations Act, Brown adds, either doing it themselves or hiring
a lawyer. However, today's court schedules can leave such a case
lingering for months before being heard, she says.
Ultimately, the court decides on what is best for the child.
Some grandparents assume older children just don't want to
see them, or they would do so on their own, according to
Whittington.
What they often don't understand is that teens, in
particular, are so absorbed in their own world, they don't
readily think of others.
Conversely, the child might assume a grandparent isn't
interested. Whittington cites one grandmother who sent the kids
birthday and Christmas presents by taxi, only to have their
mother return them the same way.
"The kids never knew the grandmother was trying," Whittington
says.
One of Whittington's favourite reconciliation stories
involves Canada's national game.
Just to see their grandson, the paternal grandparents would
go to his hockey games, sitting on the opposite side of the
arena from the estranged former daughter-in-law's family. The
young player finally had enough, complaining he was getting
whiplash from looking from side to side.
"I need you all on one side," he told them. They moved closer
and closer until, eventually, they sat together, Whittington
says.
Victoria Times Colonist
jgibson@tc.canwest.com
© Copyright (c) Canwest News Service
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NEW!! GRANDPARENT TRAINING
VIDEOS REGARDING CPS:
Watch all
four regardless of where you are at in the process
Provided by:
http://washingtonstateextendedfamilies.com/
Part one:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YC7FxvYUKzw
Part two:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B_QdgdtmJes
Part three:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CDZbLSrCUHY
Part four:
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Child Protective Services
and Legal Help:
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Child Protective Services
and Psychological Evaluations:
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Family Court Crisis - Our children at Risk:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KD2TowPuYVg
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How to do an affidavit:
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ATTORNEY GENERALS ARE VIOLATING EXTENDED FAMILY CONSTITUTIONAL RIGHTS
ACROSS THE COUNTRY IN PARENTAL TRIALS AS INDIVIDUALS SEEKING RELIEF.
Extended family have implied and assumed rights through state laws.
Those laws may imply several things, such as placement with family first
in a dependency action. While in court, AGs may minimize the importance
of family, the state laws suggest recognition. Many argue that extended
family have no Constitutional rights and I disagree. As an individual
stakeholder in a child's life, there is often a tremendous amount of
time, money and belongings provided by extended family making them heavy
investors. In some cultures in our country, including and not limited to
Caucasian, lineage such as grandchildren are just as heavily invested in
as immediate lineage. If one reads the fifth amendment: nor be
deprived of life, liberty, or property, without due process of law; nor
shall private property be taken for public use, without just
compensation this would include lineage and the rights to lineage
where heavy investments have been made to the benefit of the whole
family. Parents often depend on extended family for their children's
well being and secondary parenting.
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- Do your
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Other
Sites That May Interest You
- Grandparents Against The Destruction Of Families Inc.-
http://www.go2gadf.com/
- www.custodialgrandparents.com
-Where you
can go to discuss the toils and triumphs of raising a second
generation. It is a forum setting where we can vent, share,
and seek advice. I don't make anything for running this site.
I do it out of the love and compassion I have for other grandparents
out there who have found themselves in the same situation. I
hope to see you soon.
-
Grand Parents Again - Support Groups.
We are
always looking to make additions in our Support Area. If you know of
a support group either On-Line or Off-Line, let us know.
- AARP Discussion Sites relating to Grand Parents:
(My AARP Address:
http://www.aarp.org/community/GranPaChuck )
Visitation with Grandchildren -
This group is
for grandparents who are experiencing problems with visiting
their grandchildren.
Raising Grandchildren -
This group is
for grandparents who are raising grandchildren to communicate,
share tips and discuss challenges and solutions.
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This Says
It All

God Made Grand Parents
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Southern Grandma Goes To Court
(Note: Not sure of the original
author, but thought you might enjoy this)
Lawyers should never ask a Southern grandma a question if they aren't
prepared
for the answer.
In a trial, a Southern small-town prosecuting attorney called his first
witness,
a grandmotherly, elderly woman to the stand. He approached her and
asked, 'Mrs.
Jones, do you know me?' She responded, 'Why, yes, I do know you, Mr.
Williams.
I've known you since you were a boy, and frankly, you've been a big
disappointment to me. You lie, you cheat on your wife, and you
manipulate people
and talk about them behind their backs. You think you're a big shot when
you
haven't the brains to realize you'll never amount to anything more than
a
two-bit paper pusher. Yes, I know you.'
The lawyer was stunned. Not knowing what else to do, he pointed across
the room
and asked, 'Mrs. Jones, do you know the defense attorney?'
She again replied, 'Why yes, I do. I've known Mr. Bradley since he was a
youngster, too. He's lazy, bigoted, and he has a drinking problem. He
can't
build a normal relationship with anyone, and his law practice is one of
the
worst in the entire state. Not to mention he cheated on his wife with
three
different women. One of them was your wife. Yes, I know him.'
The defense attorney nearly died.
The judge asked both counselors to approach the bench and, in a very
quiet
voice, said,
'If either of you idiots asks her if she knows me, I'll send you both to
the
electric chair.'
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A guy is 80 years old and loves to fish.
He was sitting in his boat the other day when he heard a voice say,
"Pick me up." He looked around and couldn't see any one. He thought
he was dreaming when he heard the voice say again,"Pick me up."
He looked in the water and there, floating on the top, was a frog.
The man said, "Are you talking to me?"
The frog said, "Yes, I'm talking to you. Pick me up, then kiss me
and I'll turn into the most beautiful woman you have ever seen.
"I'll make sure that all your friends are envious and jealous
because I will be your bride!"
The man looked at the frog for a short time, reached over, picked it
up carefully, and placed it in his front breast pocket.
Then the frog said, "What, are you nuts? Didn't you hear what I
said? I said kiss me and I will be your beautiful bride."
He opened his pocket, looked at the frog and said,
"Nah, at my age I'd rather have a talking frog."
With age comes wisdom.
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For the Young Ones

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Grand Parent Survey
Link to Survey:
http://www.surveymonkey.com/s.aspx?sm=FDwqrVvm6Tdh3ZtW1C7b4g_3d_3d
Dear Grandparent,
My name is Joan Strutton and I am a doctoral candidate at
Texas A&M University-Commerce. I am currently conducting
research to determine differences in depression levels in
grandparents raising their grandchildren and depression
experienced by traditional grandparents. The purpose of the
research is to identify these differences and use the
research to develop and provide better support systems for
grandparents. The results of this study may be used to
design and initiate further research studies.
The survey takes an estimated 10 minutes to complete.
That time could be longer or shorter depending on the amount
of time that is taken to answer the questions. The survey is
hosted by an outside survey company, SurveyMonkey.com, and
all responses are stored on the company’s website and kept
completely confidential and anonymous. The system does not
link the responses with the individual. All information will
be encrypted to further protect the participants.
If you experience any type of discomfort after completing
the survey, please contact your personal physician, a
counselor, or a skilled helper at the telephone help lines
provided to you. There are no costs or benefits associated
with this study.
Depression Hotline Suicide Hotline Crisis Hotline
630-482-9696 800-784-2433 800-273-8255
Participation is voluntary. Refusal to participate will
involve no penalty or loss of benefits to which you are
otherwise entitled. You may discontinue answering the survey
at any time prior to clicking the submit button. Once you
have entered your responses and the data are in the
SurveyMonkey system, no one can identify, edit, or remove
your individual responses. By clicking on the yes button,
you are giving your consent to participate in the study.
If you have any questions or concerns about this study
please contact Joan Strutton, Texas A&M University-Commerce,
Phone: 254-721-8645 or Dr. Amir Abbassi in the Department of
Counseling, Texas A&M University-Commerce, Phone:
903-886-5637. Questions regarding your rights as a
participant may be directed to Dr. Tracy Henley, IRB Chair,
Texas A&M University-Commerce at 903-886-5200.
Thank you,
Joan Strutton
Doctoral Candidate
Texas A&M University-Commerce
Link to Survey:
http://www.surveymonkey.com/s.aspx?sm=FDwqrVvm6Tdh3ZtW1C7b4g_3d_3d
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